I have an in-law whose text thread I just ignore, which is usually a stream of this-country-is-going-to-hell-in-a-hand-basket statements but I've realized their love language is being a contrarian to their children's opinions (I think it's a boomer thing). However, when speaking in person, they are more thoughtful and understanding (though usually not accepting) of other view points, and the same on my end. Open communication goes a long way towards combatting posturing.
Also, cavorting with the devil in a pumpkin patch sounds like a grand ol' time.
"We need more friendship in this world, not less" ..... I agree completely Natalia and real friends, not FB ones . My real friends show up when the chips are down, communicate regularly and don't use or abuse. One on one contact is always the best and ideally with some physical element....even holding someone's hand or giving them a hug or really any type of touch always strengthens bonds and friendship. Thanks for an excellent article :)
I have an in-law whose text thread I just ignore, which is usually a stream of this-country-is-going-to-hell-in-a-hand-basket statements but I've realized their love language is being a contrarian to their children's opinions (I think it's a boomer thing). However, when speaking in person, they are more thoughtful and understanding (though usually not accepting) of other view points, and the same on my end. Open communication goes a long way towards combatting posturing.
Also, cavorting with the devil in a pumpkin patch sounds like a grand ol' time.
"We need more friendship in this world, not less" ..... I agree completely Natalia and real friends, not FB ones . My real friends show up when the chips are down, communicate regularly and don't use or abuse. One on one contact is always the best and ideally with some physical element....even holding someone's hand or giving them a hug or really any type of touch always strengthens bonds and friendship. Thanks for an excellent article :)